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14Oct/100

The Social Network

Julie and I went to a movie last night, our first movie in a theater in a long, long time.  We watched The Social Network, the story of the beginning of Facebook.

I like the scene where Facebook co-founders, Zuckerberg and Saverin, began to understand the enormity of Facebook's potential.  Saverin wanted to start earning money with the site by selling ads.  Zuckerberg wanted to keep the site ad-free and maintain its "cool" factor, and incorporating advertising would make the site uncool.

I thought Zuckerberg showed incredible patience and discipline in holding off from advertisements.  He wasn't sure what they had on their hands with The Facebook site, all he knew is that it was gaining momentum fast.  I think there's something to be learned from this.  Sometimes we can settle for the good when better is just down the road. Often, we don't know what's down the road -- it's not so clear -- but there's something to be said for delaying immediate gratification and waiting for the "other thing."

This is why the Bible says to "wait on the Lord", which means to align myself to God's timing and purposes. This means not jumping at every opportunity, idea,  fad, or innovation.  It means having patience and faith that God's best plan and purpose is sometimes just down the road.

7Oct/10Off

Opposition

"Human opposition only enhances your (God's) glory, for you use it as a sword of judgement."  Psalm 76:10

What a great reminder that opposition to God's purposes and the Gospel doesn't stop Him, and even more, it brings him glory.  This seems so counter-intuitive to us.  We often think that opposition impedes God's purpose, but it is to God's glory to show that nothing can stop Him.  The biblical pattern is persecution and opposition doesn't stop the Gospel, it spreads it.

Are you facing opposition at work, at school, or at home?  Then rejoice, God is glorified and the atmosphere is right for a miracle and the spread of the Gospel!

25Dec/090

How to have a meaningful Christmas

Here's quick recap of GBCK's Christmas Conspiracy series that looked at four keys to keeping the true meaning of Christmas alive.

1. Remember the Reason:  It all starts with Jesus; no Jesus, no Christmas.  Remembering the birth of Jesus isn't merely a historical exercise.  It's remembering that the King of the Universe radically broke into humanity in order to redeem his creation back to himself.  Jesus came so we can know God.

2. Give Presence:  Presence cannot be given in a box with a bow.  Presence is simply the gift of relationships; it's being near to those whom you love, and to those who are far from God.  You can't buy presence in a store, it's given with your life.

3. Mind Your Margins:  We can lose the meaning of Christmas under an avalanche of busyness.  By making sure we have extra space (margins) in our lives we allow refreshment for our souls.  We clear our minds for a moment for reflection and gratitude.

4. Live with Hope:  Sin is hopeless. Jesus came because we were in a hopeless situation.  Jesus came so that we can believe that tomorrow will be better than today.  We can rely on the One from whom all hope and comfort comes.  Jesus is the anchor of hope for our souls. (Hebrews 6:19)

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24Dec/090

Open before Christmas

We're breaking with tradition this year.  Usually we open gifts on Christmas day, but today we are allowing the boys to open one gift today (Christmas Eve).

However, the gifts they will open are symbolic gifts; they are gifts that symbolize a character trait that's developed in their lives over the last year.  Julie and I want to affirm their growth, and to encourage them to continue to grow.

Symbolic gifts aren't expensive, but they are rich in meaning.

For Josiah, 8: a plant that symbolizes his growth in many areas: academics, athletics, relationships, physically (he's up to Julie's shoulder).  He's starting to sprout and bloom.

For Micah, 6: a pack of his favorite gum that symbolizes his ability to stick-to-it.  He's learning to push through the hard parts whether it's piano practice, puzzle making, scripture memory, etc.

For Aaron, 4: a little magnifying glass to symbolize a year of discovery.  He's discovering the world around him more and more.  He's discovering his physical abilities, social norms, vocabulary, his love for his brothers, etc.

These gifts will be presented tonight at our backyard camp out complete with hot chocolate and roasted marshmallows.

Yes, we're breaking with tradition but hoping to start a new one.

22Dec/090

Simplification through Elimination

I read a great quote this morning: "The ability to simplify means to eliminate the unnecessary so that the necessary may speak." ~ Hans Hofmann.

What a great reminder, especially during the Christmas season when everything gets so cluttered.  If we want the true message of Christmas to speak loud and clear in our lives we need the ability to eliminate the unnecessary. Yet, this idea of simplification isn't reserved only for Christmas; it about life as a whole.

I'm trying to simplify my life into three pursuits: 1) develop my faith (to know God), 2) deepen my connections (to know others), 3) devote my life to God's purpose (that God would be known).

The obvious question is, "What do I need to eliminate that is preventing me from faith, connection, and life?"

I'm learning to pray as the Apostle Paul did when he prayed that we would determine what really matters (Philippians 1:9-10), and eliminate the rest.